running

Feb. 23rd, 2022 05:28 pm
forgotten_aria: (felicia sleep)
I'm coming to the realization that I don't hate running, I just hate being slow and everything that mean. From childhood associations of inadequacy to just feeling guilty if people have to wait for me.

I wonder what I can do to start separating running from these issues so it doesn't send me in to a mental health spiral.
forgotten_aria: (Default)
This is just a record for myself. Only making it public in case people are interested.

current weight lifting personal records )

wall walk

Mar. 12th, 2021 09:41 pm
forgotten_aria: (Default)
I'm kind of proud of this, even though it's inelegant and not actually meeting the standard.

video )
forgotten_aria: (Default)
I tried to get a pulley offset for doing pull ups (bands have the problem that they don't give equal resistance and I wanted a concrete data point of where I was.) I think I got it working just enough to know that 80lbs of offset lets me do at least one pull up but since I couldn't get it working I couldn't test further or have a nice slow ramp up. 80lbs is a depressingly high number. Maybe 5 years is unrealistic.
forgotten_aria: (Default)
One of the things that I've had to learn in the last 5 years about me and exercise is how to take care of myself without feeling guilty. Given that I was taught by society to think that I was fat because I was a lazy, anytime I don't go all out on an exercise I feel that programming kick in. But more and more I realize that is why I couldn't make exercise sustainable. If I make myself miserable, sick or even injure myself, then that will do much more damage to my health than if I listen hard to my body and take that step back.

But it is so hard. Today, for instance, there is a "hero WOD" of 1000 box step ups. To do it full out you are supposed to do a 20" step with a 35lb pack as fast as you can. Most of the other people in the gym are taking ~70 minutes to do this. I'm doing no weight, 14" step and spaced out through out the day because my knee is still an issue. I waffle between "is this a smart thing to do with my knee at all?" and "why am I not just pushing through and doing the 1000, I've already scaled it TWICE," and sometimes I throw in "well, since I'm 85lbs overweight, its kind of like a straight weight person doing it with an 85lb weight."

I hope I can figure out how to be kind to my body without being mean to my mind.
forgotten_aria: (Default)
I found a way to scale clapping pushups. I'm now able to do one with about 4" of scaling. Not far off from a flat one.
forgotten_aria: (Default)
First, I acknowledge that I'm extremely privileged to have had the space and money to do the following.

I have slowly been putting together my at home work out space.

Before this all started, I had made myself a pylo box for practicing at home.

It started with cleaning out the back corner of the basement with equipment on loan from Crossfit Ares.

long post with photos. )

plank DDR

May. 19th, 2020 04:56 pm
forgotten_aria: (chun li kick)
I decided to try plank DDR. I did one song and it went well, and then I wanted to do another song that might look a bit more impressive, and it was tough, I can barely get through it, but the first time I recorded it, I had bad plank form, so I recorded it again, and now I'm sticking out my tongue (a genetic trait when thinking hard) but tough!

Plank DDR lives!



As a side note, DaVinci Resolve is hands down the best video edit software I've ever used and it's free! I feel guilty that something so good is free. I would love to give them money, but the next tier up is way too expensive.
forgotten_aria: (Default)
It was 11 days ago that I found out about the pillow trick and holding your legs up with your core so my legs didn't just slip off. This isn't amazing by any means, but it is real and noticeable progress, and I'm happy.

forgotten_aria: Let me Fall (let me fall)
After some unbecoming whining about running, I started my training for my black belt physical in October and immediately my tendon is itching (a warning sign before it becomes inflamed.) I'm going to try different shoes next time. Give it lots of massage and hot soaks. It does not bode well for my training however. I will have to figure it all out, somehow.

On another note, I made notable progress with frogstand, for the first time holding it, rather than pushing up and falling back down. I'm still not past more than 2s, but it's progress.

I still can't figure out why it's so hard for me to kick up into handstand. I don't know if it's just the weight of my hips, lack of flexibility or just doing something wrong. I stopped really practicing in the door frame after I took a spill (because I missed the other side of the frame with my foot) and gave myself some bruises.

bruises )

Change

Apr. 24th, 2020 01:38 pm
forgotten_aria: (chun li kick)
I want to write this here first to try to make sure I get all my thoughts about this before posting it to IG.

My body doesn't like to change. Often when I talk about all the exercise I do, someone will pipe up with something like "Soon you'll see your clothes fitting differently." No, I won't. I am not on a "journey" and my before and afters look pretty much the same.

two years apart. )
This is "before" two years of crossfit. Now, to be fair, I had to take several months off in the middle because of the back issue, but this is also what I've seen with Taekwondo too. People will even tell me that I HAVE lost weight, when I know what the scale tells me. I will agree I stand straighter and move more easily.

What you don't see in the photos are the real changes. That I've regained the use of my knees, mostly. That I feel better and have, on average, less pain. That I'm trying new things with my body and learning to better use and trust it. But even that is a mixed bag. Each day is a little different and some days it feels like I haven't made any progress at all. This is why I have to focus on process, not results. If I can love the doing, then it doesn't matter if I don't get stronger or look different. This is why I'm trying to embrace and celebrate what this body can do, not what body I wish I had. And I hope to encourage others to go out and try things, even if society has told them they can't do it "because."

Posting these photos for me is still very hard. I've been programmed for a long time that I'm too fat to show this much skin. This is why I hate when anyone talks about a "beach body." It reaffirms the idea that you have to look a specific way before dressing in certain clothing or even existing in a public place. I don't think I can ever deprogram myself completely.

I feel like I'm missing some of the thoughts I wanted to include with this, so I might have to come back and add to this as things go on.

P.S. the first, darker photos are actually the 2020 (current) photos.
forgotten_aria: (Default)
I haven't been dealing great with now, which is weird, since my life hasn't changed that much. I think it's because 2020 was supposed to be a year of hope, a year where we looked to removing the cheato. But even that, with Biden, is kind of soured. I am very tired of the current state of politics and press. I am tired that the cheato did so many things wrong, but his propaganda machines in the conservative media always find a way to blame someone else.

But I think the "unknown" is wearing on me and how this seems to continue to spotlight the worst humans. People who let their stupidity become violence. People who let their love of money make them do horrible thing and the "Haves" going out of their way to take from the "have nots."

Crossfit workouts have become all small dumbbell (because I don't own anything bigger) and body weight stuff, so I'm not getting my feeling of power from moving weight around. They did lend me a bar and some plates, so I gratefully have a barbell to play with, but since I can only go up to 125, it means I'm forced to work on those movements I don't do well (snatch, clean, overhead squat.) And I do need to work on them, desperately, but that doesn't generate accomplishment brain-chemistry.

Taekwondo has taken to teaching on line, and I'm finding it fun, but also very stressful. It's so hard to teach people when they might crash into a piece of furniture at any moment and when you're not really sure how left and right works, because your camera is mirrored, but you're supposed to be doing mirrored (which I haven't practiced that much, so I'm not confident I'm doing it right.) Then add in any technical difficulties. (I had zoom tell me it was the wrong password until I reinstalled zoom, my tablet's screen is failing again. Thank goodness I have so many computers.)

The best part of all this is I've gotten to play some really amazing board games online with good people. I've really enjoyed Tzolk'in, Hanabi, and Ghost Stories and we just started Gloomhaven. We struggled a bit both with the online game interface (it turned a card into a double backed card inexplicably) and getting our bearings, but I really really like it and look forward to its campaign nature.

The mixed part is I've gotten a chance to work on some movements that I hadn't been making time for . I did get back up into a handstand for the first time since my back got inflamed, which made me happy, but it takes me ~25 tries, and it's a bit of fear thing and I'm frustrated that I don't seem to be getting better. I've been trying to work on my overhead squat depth, but I have this gap. 20lbs, no problem, nice and deep. 35lbs, I can't even get parallel. (keep in mind, I can front squat a lot more.) I can't figured out how to get those in between weights. I can't really work on a snatch until I have the OH squat. There's also a gap in the weights right about where I need to work on my clean. I can clean 95lbs, no problem. I struggle with 115lbs. The plate math means there's no in between. I've been working on my pull up too, but the progress there is sloth-like, except I'm pretty sure a sloth can do pull ups better than me. I should also try working on my box jumps and my double unders, but I've not had the cycles. I am having fun posting things to my Instagram inspiration account, but even the plan for that is a reminder of what's going on.

Which is the main problem. I've been feeling tired and drained this whole time and I don't really know why. I have very little will to do things that aren't video games.

I hope people are doing well.
forgotten_aria: (Default)
Part of what I love about crossfit is that, normally, it is a mix of weight lifting and body weight exercises. I need to get better at body weight exercises, but weight lifting makes me feel like I don't suck all the time, since, in general, I'm stronger than most other people, but given my extra weight, I suck at body weight stuff. (I weight about 80lbs over my 'ideal' weight.)

Sadly, the "at home" workouts assume, rightfully, that you don't have much spare or much equipment, so it's been almost entirely body weight exercises, with the addition of a light weight. This is driving home to me how important the addition of weight lifting into the mix is. It's kind of demoralizing and frustrating how bad I am. I was never very good at the workouts, but at least I could have the consolation prize of throwing 100+ pounds of barbell around, no problem.

It feeds into my "I'm bad at everything," issue. I did get to borrow a bar, so once I'm 100% from this cold and neck pain I had, I will get back to throwing it around.
forgotten_aria: (chun li kick)
I've never been able to do a pull up. Even for that short week I weighed 135lbs. I got a pullup band hoping that will help, but I've not seen any progress at all (slight progress in using the band, but none in negatives.) Hoop has also started trying to build my upperbody strength, with shoulder and back engagement.

I started to do some more research and people see to feel that a banded pull up doesn't help because it helps too much at the bottom. My negatives are pretty much instant, so they're kind of useless. I can do the scapula engagements, but they don't feel like progress. I've also tried the kneeling pull down on the weight machine, and I'm not convinced it will help in the long run. A lot of the guides assume you can do negatives.

The most discouraging thing, though, is so many of the guides say "lose weight." That's not a training suggestion! Sure, every body weight exercise would be easier if I were lighter, but that's not helpful!

I was able to lift my toes off the ground starting with a bent arm in hoop which was a nice surprise.

I also built a 14/17/20 plyo box because at my crossfit gym they only have 12" and 20" boxes and I wanted to train up to 20". I can do 14" no problem, but 17" is just above what I can do. I'm hoping I can soon get that last little height I need. I built it (with the help of my mom) because they charge ~$50 for one premade. After building it, I'm not so sure I shouldn't have spent the money. I wouldn't have gotten the size I wanted, however, so in the end, I got what I hope I need.
forgotten_aria: (Default)
I got a headstand bench. It was a bit costly and I was worried I wouldn't be able to use it since I've been struggling with kicking up into my handstand, but after a few minutes I was up and even doing leg lifts. I'm a very happy consumer.

P.S. This is after doing 150 situps as part of my noon workout. It's my dreamwidth, I'm allowed to brag!

photos and video )

warm ups

Jan. 29th, 2020 11:33 am
forgotten_aria: Let me Fall (let me fall)
One of the interesting thing about my lyra classes is that the warm up is combined with the pole class, which means it's this interesting blend of strength, yoga, and flexibility with just a hint of sexualization. I don't think I could ever really enjoy pole because of the sexualization of it, even though it seems like an amazing art form. (If this instagram thing takes off, I'll take a beginner lesson just for the variety of it.)

As with crossfit, I'm super glad that i'm already pretty strong, because the warm up is also pretty challenging (as it is, I can't do "low plank" which is basically pushup hold.)

I don't know if I've mentioned it, but the crossfit warm ups are what I used to call "working out," and would have killed me before TKD. It's kind of awesome that I'm at a stage where it really does just feel like a warm up now.
forgotten_aria: (Default)
I've been trying to get up to 4 hours of crossfit in a week, but with 4-6 hours of taekwondo and lyra, my body hasn't had the energy to make it the week. I've only have my one hoop class and I'm signed up for 3 more, but I'm thinking I can't quite do it all and I might give up hoop for now, but I will reevaluate after the 3 classes are done.

I'm still super happy to know there is a hoop/silks place where I can feel comfortable, even if I can't take advantage of it for now.

I'm thinking of starting a Instagram account focused on the things I've been doing with my body that I was told as a kid wasn't possible at my size in hopes that more people will just go out and find their happy exercise.
forgotten_aria: (Default)
Until crossfit, i never got endorphins from exercising. Today, because of the format of the workout, I almost made myself sick (I try to avoid that) but then when I got home, I was like "ah, that was relaxing... wait..." Whee! Endorphins rewriting my memory. :)
forgotten_aria: (Default)
I severely over heated one of my ceramic coated fry pans yesterday, bad enough it stunk up the house. Thank goodness it wasn't Teflon. I'm so happy I've rid myself of Teflon. (Over heating Teflon can make humans sick and can kill small animals. citation)

I love my new pull up assist band, even though it was $40. The old bands, I had trouble getting my foot into. This one also has an analog adjustment, so I can go in increments that make sense. It's also easy on and easy off, which is super nice, since I share the bar with G. I'm tempted to get a second one to have with me at crossfit.

The price swings during this season are pissing me off. No item should go from $550 to $338 in less than two days.

I will post suit pictures when I get the final set.

Hoping to start lyra in the new year, but it will mean skipping sparring for TKD until I can get into the level 1 class.

Read more... )
forgotten_aria: (Default)
My back is still a bit inflamed but almost better. I think what happened was I over worked my muscles, which let my damaged disk slouch and inflame one of my nerves (by internet self diagnosis, the L5 nerve.) I'm hoping to be ok by Saturday for a group silks class that a friend organized. I haven't been able to do crossfit since two weeks ago and TKD since a week and a half ago. Usually this has a negative effect on my mental health, but I'm doing pretty well. I am looking very much forward to getting back to both, however, so I'll have no problem starting back up.

Also on the mental health thing, I referred to the Winchester Town Day show as a "gig" and had someone assume that I had been paid. I didn't mind the misunderstanding. I seem to have done a better job of breaking the money == worth or money == legitimacy link than I thought. I referred to it as a gig, because with taiko we used to do lots of probonos and they were still gigs. I would love to do a paying gig again someday, but I don't see that happening unless I get involved with a group again. I just don't have the self drive to practice and perform enough.

I've recorded one of the songs that I composed for Winchester down day and I'm pretty happy with it, given my current skill. My singing is a little pitchy, but I think has some really good quality to it. I don't have an autotune filter for ableton, so I just have to live with the pitchiness. There was also a weird resonance that I couldn't tell if it was just inside my head, so I notice it out. I'm currently making a music video for it. My attempt to be dramatic and artsy in the video has great potential for coming across as pretentious, but I think that's a risk I have to take.

I hope to get it done by middle of next week and then start working on my Halloween costume in earnest.

Profile

forgotten_aria: (Default)
forgotten_aria

June 2025

S M T W T F S
1234 567
891011121314
15161718192021
22232425262728
2930     

Syndicate

RSS Atom

Most Popular Tags

Style Credit

Expand Cut Tags

No cut tags
Page generated Jul. 4th, 2025 05:27 pm
Powered by Dreamwidth Studios