weight is in the eye of the beholder
Oct. 25th, 2022 12:22 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
forgotten_ariaHad another person tell me I looked thinner when I know I haven't changed in either weight or dimension (buying/making costumes makes you measure your body often.)
Most of the time I think it's just that I look happier, have better posture and am wearing different clothing.
And no, I don't think it's a compliment. It mostly implies that people find my weight unlikable.
Reminder: your body size is the least interesting thing about you and says nothing about your work ethic, self-control, or morality. long term weight loss is almost impossible to achieve so if you've lost weight and gained it back, you are normal and you haven't failed. thinner != healthier. you don't owe anyone health and most health issues are out of your control and being unhealthy is not a moral failing.
Most of the time I think it's just that I look happier, have better posture and am wearing different clothing.
And no, I don't think it's a compliment. It mostly implies that people find my weight unlikable.
Reminder: your body size is the least interesting thing about you and says nothing about your work ethic, self-control, or morality. long term weight loss is almost impossible to achieve so if you've lost weight and gained it back, you are normal and you haven't failed. thinner != healthier. you don't owe anyone health and most health issues are out of your control and being unhealthy is not a moral failing.
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