Rose collored glasses
Jun. 23rd, 2008 10:49 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Ok, so I'm not the happiest of people, but I do try to assume the best of people. Never put down to malice what can be attributed to a mistake. But I just found out someone, who tends to look at most people as out to get them, looked at me that way. And while I guess I shouldn't be suprised that I wasn't immune, it hurt a lot and most of what they were basing it off of was miscommunications.
So this is my PSA for the day. Before you go thinking those horrible things about people, take a moment to give them the benefit of the doubt. I'm not saying to give them so much trust as to let yourself get hurt by them, but it stead of just being mad that they said or did something, think maybe there is another explination other than they were just being mean, selfish or insensitive. Being angry and holding a grudge doesn't really do you any good anyway.
So this is my PSA for the day. Before you go thinking those horrible things about people, take a moment to give them the benefit of the doubt. I'm not saying to give them so much trust as to let yourself get hurt by them, but it stead of just being mad that they said or did something, think maybe there is another explination other than they were just being mean, selfish or insensitive. Being angry and holding a grudge doesn't really do you any good anyway.