For those of us who find themselves alone and forgotten, a day set aside for the lucky ones who have someone to love is doubly hurtful. It is bad enough being unwanted, but having it rubbed in by all the unavoidable fuss makes it so much harder to ignore.

Birthdays aren't any better. I remember one on which I received nothing; not a single a greeting. The next year I was delighted when I got a card from my insurance agent (even though it was because he was about to adjust my premiums due to the age change), and a friendly email from my husband's mistress. At least someone noticed.

I fully understand why some folks keep their birthdays a secret; at least then, when no one shows any interest, there is an excuse for it to have been missed that doesn't involve undermining self-esteem.
How about a day for remembering those who have been left out? How about a Lonely Hearts day for sending cards and gifts to those who live alone?