forgotten_aria: (mimi)
forgotten_aria ([personal profile] forgotten_aria) wrote2003-10-10 02:01 am

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So far my job has screwed up my sleep schedule, screwed up my eating schedule, made me sicker and made me thoroughly grumpy because I have to change my plans tomorrow to get stores done I didn't know I have to get done and I'm scared of more managers of stores yelling at me.

I hope this was a good idea.

EDIT: and screwed up my exercise schedule.

[identity profile] derekbbell.livejournal.com 2003-10-10 06:30 am (UTC)(link)
Anyone who yells at you, and I mean outright loses his/her temper, has already proven that they aren't very intelligent, nor do they have control over their emotions.

My Dad was a manager/supervisor for over 25 years and he very rarely raised his voice. Evert and I both spent time in the store when we kids, and later on worked for him when we were teenagers, and he had some of the most loyal employees I have ever seen. The remarkable thing is - we're talking about employees working for just above minimum wage making pizzas.

But it seems to me that you're fear isn't fear of being yelling at, it's a fear of rejection, which is typical among high achievers.